Implement no_reset mode

[makermelissa]

Description

The no_reset option is very useful for for doing passthrough updates as the reset functionality causes the passed-through board to not respond. I added the no_reset feature in the simplest way possible (just not calling reset()), though in future updates, feel free to change it.

Related

Fixes #178. Also, a partial fix for adafruit/Adafruit_WebSerial_ESPTool#321.

Testing

I tested this using a local version of https://github.com/adafruit/Adafruit_WebSerial_ESPTool. With this fix alone, it fails on the first attempt and then works on subsequent attempts. I will have another PR for that repo (related to our passthrough code) which makes it work consistently.

For hardware, I am using a Feather M4 and following the instructions in https://learn.adafruit.com/upgrading-esp32-firmware/upgrade-external-esp32-airlift-firmware-2.

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[brianignacio5]

Thanks @makermelissa ! I do think that rebasing #146 will provide a much comprehensive reset mode experience though.

Update: I just rebase #146 with latest changes. Could you take a look ?

[makermelissa]

Yes, I'll test it out.