Clean up node:fs utimes, futimes , and lutimes

[Jarred-Sumner]

What does this PR do?

• Handle EINTR
• Use syscall interface on linux
• Use UTIME_NOW which sets it to the current system time instead of getting the current time manually

How did you verify your code works?

• Worked around an issue preventing fs-stat-bigint from fully being run
• Added test-fs-stat-date.mjs

[robobun]

^{Updated 3:02 AM PT - Jan 23rd, 2025}

❌ @Jarred-Sumner, your commit 79ad25d has 1 failures in #10390:

• test/js/node/test/parallel/test-http-chunk-problem.js - code 1 on 🐧 3.20 aarch64
• test/js/node/test/parallel/test-http-chunk-problem.js - code 1 on 🐧 3.20 x64

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